I’ll call her
Marina. She has cut my family’s hair for quite some time now. She is an
energetic ball of Polish energy. Her accent is heavy and she talks non-stop.
Her commentary is humane and can be incisive, witty and often illuminating.
As she worked and we talked,
the recent election came up. I discovered she had voted for Trump. I was a bit
surprised. She is somewhat political and an immigrant. She said that she
understood he was “a little crazy” but that when he said something, whether
good, bad or indifferent,
“I believe him. The
other one … not so much.”
If Marina is
anything, she is inherently kind. She is a doting mother, devoted wife, hard
working, well read, exercises and paints powerful abstracts as an
avocation.
She shared with me
that a while back when she worked at a large salon her co workers had gotten
wind of the fact that she was “probably going to vote for Trump.”
“They joked and
teased. At first it was funny in a way but before long, it wasn’t funny
anymore.”
In broken English,
her eyes misty, she described how the “joking” became mean spirited. I will not
belabor the point here. What this dear soul described to me was nothing less
than shaming.
“I come from a
country where people are afraid to speak up.” She said. “When I came here to America I thought that
was over but with this I realized that I was concerned and somewhat afraid. It
wasn’t so much what they said, though it was bad … it was how they began to say
it.”
As this election has
brewed, I have discussed it and shared with others. I have been, I think,
overall evenhanded, calm, issue oriented. If I am honest I must say that I did
discount Donald Trump as “unqualified and unfit” to be President of the United
States. Now though, I think that I also disqualified the feelings and ideas of
those who shared that they were going to vote for him.
I recall one day
when a friend said he was voting for Trump that I teased and joked. I will be
making an amends.
According to the
laws of our country this man has been elected President. My task from here
forward is to be a voice of reason and consensus at every opportunity. It’s
like a fighter who loses a fight he was expected to win. I have a new respect
for my opponent and I know that I underestimated him. More importantly I
underestimated the dissatisfaction a large body of folks have with the status
quo. This now will be my motivation. This will be my cause. Before, I would
have said that I was “progressive” and inclusive. Now, I will work harder to
treat ALL people’s views with respect and deference and I will listen with more
care.
I believe in more
than just America as a nation. I believe in the CITIZENS of America and I know
that the day a kind, loving, intelligent even patriotic and legal immigrant
CITIZEN of this country is afraid and shamed because of her political leanings
and judgment that WE have much work to do.
I’m a combat
veteran. I wasn’t gung ho or anything. I was just there and I did my job. One
thing weaved among the fabric of all the sailors I knew. We were there because
folks were being denied the right to live
as they wanted to, speak their peace, have a choice of who was to govern
them . We understood that all the endless nights and blistering days … all the
labor and fear and sweat and blood was for them and so that those at home could
be free to do the same.
I offer a sort of prayer if you will.
I beseech thee … citizens … to believe not in party ideals
or personalities but in America. I call upon each and every person to buckle
down and do the work of nation … community … God, Allah … whatever Higher Power is
your guide.
I beseech thee Brother and Sisters of freedom to raise your
mighty sword in the name of righteousness and the dignity of ALL mankind.
And I pray that no matter our leanings … no matter win or
lose … the most important thing in our lives is to protect and defend the
principals and process of our great nation.
Do it for your loved ones, yes … but also do it for those
you might despise because as Jesus said to his disciples,
"whatsoever you do to the least of my brothers … that you do unto
me"